Wedding Tweaks
🟠 Updated over a year ago⚠️ Install Order · 2 steps
Install in this order, then this mod last — most mods fail to load without their framework and dependencies in place.
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🔍 Analysis
- 👍 2.6% endorsement rate — high engagement, a strong quality signal
- 🏆 #111 of 382 Gameplay Mechanics mods in this game by downloads
📋 About This Mod
This mod offers the following:
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[]Config variable for number of days between proposal and wedding
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]Lets NPCs join your wedding as "witnesses" (like Best Man / Maid of Honour)[]Console commands for checking, changing, or cancelling an upcoming wedding
[]Functionality to allow existing spouses and their children to join upcoming weddings (using Free Love mod)
Witnesses
Once you are engaged, you can ask any friendly NPC (default 6+ hearts) to be your witness. If they accept, they will stand next to you during the wedding ceremony. Accept chance is influenced by your friendship level with them.
Your fiance(e) can likewise choose someone to be their witness, who will stand next to them during the wedding. They will choose people related to them in NPCDispositions first, then any random NPC that you are friends with.
Config
The config variables are as follows:
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[]DaysUntilMarriage - the number of days between proposal and wedding (default 3)
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]AllSpousesJoinWeddings - existing spouses join weddings (only if Free Love is installed) (default true)[]AllSpousesWearMarriageClothesAtWeddings - existing spouses wear wedding clothes at weddings (only if Free Love is installed) (default true)
[]AllowWitnesses - enable witnesses (default true)
[]WitnessMinHearts - minimum number of hearts to ask someone to be your witness (default 6)
[]AllowRandomNPCWitnesses - allow your fiance(e) to choose a random friend (of yours) to be their witness (default true)
[]WitnessAcceptPercent - percent chance an NPC will accept a witness request (before heart modifier)
[]WitnessAcceptHeartFactorPercent - percent amount that hearts will affect the witness accept chance (calculated as a fraction of 14)
To change these variables, use Generic Mod Config Menu or edit this mod's config.json file (created after running the game with it installed).
Console
The following SMAPI console commands are recognized:
wedding - shows info about upcoming wedding.
wedding cancel - cancels upcoming wedding.
wedding set X - sets days until upcoming wedding (replace X with any whole number).
Just type them in the log console and hit Enter.
Free Love
For the Free Love functionality, just install Free Love 0. 5. 0 or greater.
Technical
Requires SMAPI, uses Harmony.
Compatible with Mod Updater for automatic updates.
Code is at https://github.com/aedenthorn/StardewValleyMods.
If you want to complain or ask
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[]DaysUntilMarriage - the number of days between proposal and wedding (default 3)
Wedding Tweaks is a gameplay mod for a life simulation game that lets you adjust the days between proposal and wedding, invite friendly NPCs as witnesses, use console commands to change or cancel weddings, and allow existing spouses to join upcoming weddings. With 3,561 endorsements and 137,860 downloads, it's a popular quality-of-life tool for players who want more control over wedding events.
✨ Key Features
📊 Pros & Cons
✅ Pros
- Community favorite with 3,561 endorsements and 137,860 downloads.
- Gives you real control over wedding timing—no more waiting around.
- Adds fun roleplay options like inviting friends or having multiple spouses attend.
⚠️ Cons
- No mention of compatibility with other wedding mods or game updates.
- Last updated August 2025—might not work with the latest game patch.
For players who want to customize wedding events without dealing with default timers. Also great for roleplayers who want to include friends or multiple spouses in the ceremony. Skip if you're fine with vanilla weddings and don't care about extra control.
💡 Beginner Tips
- Check the mod's page for exact console command syntax—trial and error can break your wedding.
- If you have other wedding mods, test in a save before your actual wedding to avoid conflicts.
- Use the console command to cancel a wedding if you accidentally trigger one too early.
📊 Mod Details
- Game
- Stardew Valley Mods
- Author
- aedenthorn
- Version
- 0.4.0
- Downloads
- 137,860
- Endorsements
- 3,561
- Category
- Gameplay Mechanics
- Created
- 11/13/2021
- Updated
- 8/28/2025
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