Marry Me - Reverse Wedding Proposals
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Install in this order, then this mod last — most mods fail to load without their framework and dependencies in place.
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🔍 Analysis
- 👍 1.1% endorsement rate — high engagement, a strong quality signal
- 🏆 #15 of 70 Events mods in this game by downloads
📋 About This Mod
## Features:
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[]A custom proposal event for each of the twelve original suitors[/]
[]A default proposal event for modded NPCs (if enabled by the mod author)[/]
[]A desperate proposal event — a special event that happens when a character wants to propose, but the farmer is also dating someone else at the same time. (This can be turned off).[/]
[]Choose between 2nd or 3rd person narration: (“Abigail takes your hands” vs “Abigail takes the farmer’s hands”). Configurable as a mod setting.[/]
[]Real, working engagements: no mermaid's pendant required (though the NPC will give you one instead!)[/]
[]SVE compatibility: all SVE marriage candidates can now trigger the Default Proposal (minus the Wizard)[/]
[]The bachelors all kneel now![/]
## White Events and Black Events:
To trigger a character’s normal (white) proposal, you need to be at 10 hearts with a character. There are additional time and weather constraints for some events, so be sure to check the Event Triggers article for details.Black proposals (if enabled) are triggered if a white proposal would normally be triggered, BUT the farmer is dating more than one person at the same time. If more than one NPC meets those conditions, a random suitor one will be chosen.
Half of the black proposals trigger on rainy days, the other half in sun. Check the Event Triggers article for the appropriate weather conditions if you are trying to see a specific one. And yes, there’s a black proposal for modded NPCs, too (which can be enabled by that mod's author).
## Recommended Mods:
Each event comes with a mermaid’s pendant, so please note that you will need a free slot in your inventory for these events to trigger. And, while I can’t make that pendant into a wearable piece of equipment, please check out the following recommended Fashion Sense mods for that extra bit of immersion:
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[]FS Mermaid Pendant for Farmer[/]
[]FS Wearable Mermaid Pendant Accessory[/]
Other mods that pair nicely with Marry Me: Reverse Wedding Proposals:
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[]Custom Wedding Ceremony[/]
[]Wedding Anniversaries [/]
There's also a special proposal for Kantrip's Older Sebastian.
NOTE: There is a setting which will allow you to enable proposals while married to someone else. This has no effect unless you've installed one of PolyamorySweet, Free Love,
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[]Custom Wedding Ceremony[/]
Marry Me - Reverse Wedding Proposals lets Stardew Valley NPCs propose to the farmer, flipping the usual dynamic. It's now compatible with Stardew Valley Expanded, making it a must-have for players who want a fresh romantic twist. With 1,496 endorsements and 130,764 downloads, it's a popular choice for those seeking more immersive relationship events.
✨ Key Features
📊 Pros & Cons
✅ Pros
- Huge community trust with 1,496 endorsements and over 130k downloads.
- Works with SVE, so expanded-content players can enjoy it too.
- Fresh take on romance that flips the script on traditional proposals.
⚠️ Cons
- May require additional setup for SVE compatibility beyond just installing the mod.
- Last updated July 2026 – check for any recent game updates that might break it.
For Stardew Valley players who want a role reversal in romance and enjoy letting NPCs take the initiative. Perfect for those who've played through the game multiple times and crave new relationship dynamics. Skip if you prefer traditional proposal mechanics or want a mod with extensive documentation.
💡 Beginner Tips
- If you use Stardew Valley Expanded, make sure to install SVE first and then this mod to ensure compatibility.
- Check the mod's page for any required frameworks like SMAPI, as most Stardew mods need it to run.
- After installing, start a new save or trigger the event by building a high relationship with an NPC to see the proposal.
📊 Mod Details
- Game
- Stardew Valley Mods
- Author
- Kantrip
- Version
- 1.6
- Downloads
- 130,764
- Endorsements
- 1,496
- Category
- Events
- Created
- 7/12/2025
- Updated
- 7/12/2026
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