Fighting Together Relationship
⚪ Last updated 2022⚠️ Install Order · 1 step
Install in this order, then this mod last — most mods fail to load without their framework and dependencies in place.
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🔍 Analysis
- 👍 2.2% endorsement rate — high engagement, a strong quality signal
- 🏆 #37 of 678 Gameplay mods in this game by downloads
📋 About This Mod
Fighting Together Relationship
This mod creates a new source of income for relationship with other lords / clans through battle and sieges. War is major part of Calradia and therefore it brings lords from the same faction together to fight for the same cause. You will now be able to gain relation with lords you are fighting and winning with but if you lead them and their men into death you lose a lot of relation. However if you manage to win a battle against all odds every lord in your army will give you massive respect for that.
Installation
Use Vortex mod manager or simply drag and drop the 'FightingTogetherRelationship' folder into 'C:\Program Files(x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\Modules' and don't rename anything inside or the mod will not work! I would highly suggest that you use this Mod Launcher and place my Mod under the official TaleWorlds Modules.
Current Features
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[]The ability the gain & lose relationship with your allies, companions, spouse and children depending on:
- If you won or lost the battle- Your party's contribution to the battle- Comparison between army sizes- Difference between ally and enemy casualties.[
]===> You are now able to gain relation even if you lost the battle, depending on the difficulty and the outcome of casualties![]===> You are now able to lose relation with enemies you fought against in battle!
[]Now also works between AI characters! (This feature is disabled by default, you can enable it through the Menu.)
- AI characters will now gain/lose relationship with each other if they fought together, just like the player.- Also works between hostile AI characters if they were involved in battle together. They will lose relationship if they fought each other.[]All features are customizable through the Mod Configuration Menu by @Aragasas or the config file inside the ModuleData folder, depending on the mod version you are using.
[]Full localization support. You can find the language.xml inside:
"Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\Modules\FightingTogetherRelationship\ModuleData\Languages" folder
Compatibility & Troubleshooting
For general compatibility and issues on starting or loading the game, please refer to the following information below and read carefully:
General Compatibly:
The newest version of this mod (2. 4. 0) is safe to install/update/uninstall on an existing save game.
This mod has been tested and works for Version 1. 0. 1 (Just tested for crash on start and in game)
=> This mod requires Mod Configuration Menu unless you use the config file version!
Try to unblock your mods .dll files by doing the following steps for all installed mods:
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[]Navigate to your Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\Modules folder.
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]Go into the mods Modules folder, then into the bin folder and finally into the Win64_Shipping_Client folder.[]Right-click the .dll file and then click "Properties".
[]If the .dll file is blocked you'll see a box that says 'unblock' , now click the button and repeat this for each mod.
Try running the game as administrator:
Navigate to "C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\bin\Win64_Shipping_Client" then right click on 'TaleWorlds. MountAndBlade. Launcher.exe' and go on properties. Go to the 'Compatibility' section and check the 'Run this program as an administrator' box.
Remove mods you are not using while doing troubleshooting
Mods that exist inside "Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\Modules" folder can cause problems even if they are disabled. Remove the mods you are not using or that are not involved in troubleshooting.
Work in Progress Features
[]Adding players companions ✔
[]Adding players spouse/children ✔
[*]Adding a config file for user configuration ✔
This Bannerlord mod adds dynamic relationship changes between lords, companions, and family based on battle performance. It rewards winning against the odds and punishes leading allies to death, with AI-to-AI relationships as an optional feature. Highly endorsed with 6,734 endorsements and 306,858 downloads.
✨ Key Features
📊 Pros & Cons
✅ Pros
- Huge community trust with 6,734 endorsements and over 300k downloads.
- Adds meaningful consequences to battles, making war feel more personal.
- AI-to-AI relationship system adds depth to faction politics.
⚠️ Cons
- Last updated in 2022, so may not be compatible with the latest game patches.
- Requires Mod Configuration Menu for full customization, which is an extra dependency.
- The mod's complexity might be overwhelming for players who just want simple relationship tweaks.
For Bannerlord players who want battles to affect their political standing and relationships with other lords. If you enjoy role-playing as a leader whose actions have social consequences, this mod is for you. Skip if you prefer a more straightforward gameplay experience without extra relationship management.
💡 Beginner Tips
- Use Vortex mod manager or manually drop the folder into Modules, but don't rename anything inside.
- Place this mod under official TaleWorlds modules in your load order to avoid conflicts.
- Enable the AI relationship feature through the in-game menu if you want a more dynamic world.
📊 Mod Details
- Game
- Bannerlord Mods
- Author
- Xentec
- Version
- 2.4.0
- Downloads
- 306,858
- Endorsements
- 6,734
- Category
- Gameplay
- Created
- 4/12/2020
- Updated
- 11/15/2022
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🔧 How to Install Bannerlord Mods
Use Vortex or manual. Enable mods in launcher. Harmony required.
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