They Married (Your Companions)

⭐ ⭐ (270 endorsements) 📥 27,728 downloads 📌 vv1.1.5 📅 5/24/2025
🟡 Updated this year

By FedRandomNumber · Gameplay

⬇ Download Mod Source: Nexus Mods ↗ 📅 Updated: 1/19/2026 📅 Created: 5/24/2025

🔍 Analysis

  • 👍 1.0% endorsement rate
  • 🏆 #321 of 687 Gameplay mods in this game by downloads

📋 About This Mod

This is my next attempt to make the world of the game more alive and natural.

How it works?

Over time, some of the characters in your party will build relationships. It depends on the characters and will be sped up by battles.

At a certain point, they will ask for your blessing to get married.

If it's a member of your family married a companion, the companion marries into your family and becomes a part of it.

If two wanderers marry, they stay wanderers and their children will become wanderers too (hireable in taverns).

Should be compatible with total conversions (I mostly tested it with the Realms of Thrones) and work if turned on mid-game. I think your game should survive turning if off mid-game too (but I can't guarantee that, and there will definitely be left-overs).

How to install.

Download, put the folder inside the archive where the Bannerlord modules are.

C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\Modules\TheyMarried - in my case.

Configuration.

Find and edit the config file in the mod folder.

In my case, it's "C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\Modules\Promoted\config.txt"

MarriageThreshold=360 - "time" it takes to want to marry; without battles, the companions that barely fit (but still do fit) will take this amount of days to want to marry.

DebugLogging=false - turn on some debug logging.

ForcePregnancyDaily=false - debug option to force pregnancies.

ExpeditePregnancy=false - debug option to make pregnancy go really fast.

ExpediteGrowingUp=false - debug option to make children grow up really fast.

DebugAutoAcceptMarriage=false - debug option to auto-accept the marriage proposals (I think it requires DebugLogging true too).

ClanChangeAtWill=false - add the dialogue option to send your companion to a clan of your choosing (in the kingdom).

ISSUES

Baby Of Rare Culture Crash

This mod can be a link in a chain resulting with a crash when a baby with unconventional culture is born.

By "unconventional", I mean, a culture for which the devs didn't set up civilian equipment for babies to use.

I recommend using Baby Of Rare Culture Crash Fix to prevent this.

This is the solution I made specifically for this problem. It should be pretty compatible, but if it causes problems for you, you can try other approaches.

The alternatives are:

[]Use ReCulture to change the parent's culture to something more conventional manually.[/]

[*]If one of the parents has a conventional culture - keep reloading until the baby inherits the culture

🤖 AI-enhanced — based on mod data

This gameplay mod lets your companions form relationships and marry, but only with your blessing. It adds a new layer of social depth to your party. With 270 endorsements and recent updates, it's a popular choice for players seeking more immersive companion interactions.

✨ Key Features

Allows companions to form relationships with each other.
Companions can marry, but only with your blessing.
Adds social depth to your party dynamics.

📊 Pros & Cons

✅ Pros

  • 270 endorsements show the community digs it.
  • 27k downloads mean it's been tested by a lot of players.
  • Updated recently, so it's likely still maintained.

⚠️ Cons

  • No details on how the blessing mechanic works in-game.
  • Potential conflicts with other companion mods that alter relationship systems.
  • Compatibility with the latest game version isn't confirmed.
🎯 Is This For You?
If you're a roleplayer who wants your party to feel alive with personal connections, this is for you. Also great for players who enjoy managing their companions' lives beyond combat. If you prefer your companions as pure stat sticks, skip it.
📦 Install:Easy· Under 1 minute

💡 Beginner Tips

  • Check if your other companion mods alter relationship flags to avoid conflicts.
  • Try it on a test save first to see how the blessing prompt works.
  • Watch your companions' dialogue for hints about their new relationships.

📊 Mod Details

Game
Bannerlord Mods
Author
FedRandomNumber
Version
v1.1.5
Downloads
27,728
Endorsements
270
Category
Gameplay
Created
5/24/2025
Updated
1/19/2026

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