(OBSOLETE) I Don't Want Your Eldest Member
⚪ Last updated 2023Preview
🔍 Analysis
- 👍 1.6% endorsement rate — high engagement, a strong quality signal
- 🏆 #233 of 678 Gameplay mods in this game by downloads
📋 About This Mod
Mod is obsolete. It is integrated in Bannerlord Expanded - Spouses Expanded
In vanilla game, when you approach a clan leader to marry someone from his/her clan, they will only offer the eldest member that is available for marriage. This mod changes that by providing an option to choose the other clan members that are available for marriage.
Save Compatibility:
You can safely add/remove this mod to an existing save game.
Mod Compatibility:
Mods that replace marriage condition models such as Marry Anyone has been tested to be compatible.Updates:
Please read the changelog!
This mod gives you options when arranging a marriage alliance, instead of being forced to accept the eldest member as the candidate. It's for players who want control over marriage politics. The mod is marked obsolete but has 634 endorsements and 39,505 downloads, last updated December 2023.
✨ Key Features
📊 Pros & Cons
✅ Pros
- 634 endorsements and 39,505 downloads — clearly a popular fix for many players.
- Directly addresses the annoyance of being forced to marry the eldest member in alliance proposals.
- Updated as recently as December 2023, so it was maintained until recently.
⚠️ Cons
- Author marked the mod as obsolete, so it's no longer supported.
- Thin description doesn't specify which game it's for or exact mechanics, making it harder to verify compatibility.
For players who want more control over marriage alliances and dislike being forced to accept the eldest member as a marriage candidate. Ideal if you enjoy political matchmaking and want choices. Skip if you prefer vanilla mechanics or need an actively maintained mod — this one is obsolete.
💡 Beginner Tips
- Check the mod's comments section for installation steps and whether it works with the current game version.
- If you use a mod manager, add the mod through it; otherwise, manually place files in the mod folder specified by your game.
- Since the author marked it obsolete, search for a newer mod that does the same thing if you encounter issues.
📊 Mod Details
- Game
- Bannerlord Mods
- Author
- AxelCawe
- Version
- 1.2.7
- Downloads
- 39,505
- Endorsements
- 634
- Category
- Gameplay
- Created
- 1/13/2023
- Updated
- 12/19/2023
🧩 Commonly Used Together
Users add these mods to the same collections — a real compatibility signal, not an AI guess.
🔧 How to Install Bannerlord Mods
Use Vortex or manual. Enable mods in launcher. Harmony required.
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