Marry Anyone
⚪ Last updated 2022⚠️ Install Order · 1 step
Install in this order, then this mod last — most mods fail to load without their framework and dependencies in place.
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🔍 Analysis
- 👍 2.1% endorsement rate — high engagement, a strong quality signal
- 🏆 #49 of 678 Gameplay mods in this game by downloads
📋 About This Mod
Updated for v. 1. 0!
New update for the new release of Bannerlord e. 1. 8. 0 with many bugfixes and changes.
List of all changes will be written in the changelogs.
Major changes:
Commoners (townsfolk, villagers, and much more) can be married directly.
Adoption is dropped in order to put it in its own mod at some point.
Marry Anyone is now updated to work with e1. 5.x and now uses MCMv4 to further improve upon the mod!
To access the mod options, load up a character save and then go to the mod options.
There is now a config file to change the settings if you go without MCM.
You only need this mod if you decide to use the config file instead.
[ My Other Mods ]
Using this mod in conjunction with Recruit Everyone will allow you to also marry townsfolk and notables as well!
Extended Family will allow you to see other distant relatives and a family tree to show how grand your dynasty is!
Added a new adoption system where you can go into towns and villages to talk to
parentless children/teenagers about adoption.
You can also choose the difficulty and sexual orientation with each character you play with v2.
There are other options such as incest and polygamy that are also available.
With Marry Anyone, there are more options available to you when it comes to companionship.
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[]Faction leaders
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]Minor faction leaders - Companions
Let me know if there are any issues that you run across when playing the newest version.
Goes without saying to backup saves if you want to try this mod.
Mod order example:
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Marry Anyone is a gameplay mod for Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord that expands marriage options to include faction leaders, minor faction leaders, companions, and commoners. It offers configurable settings for difficulty, sexual orientation, incest, and polygamy. The mod is updated for e1.8.0 and integrates with MCMv4.
✨ Key Features
📊 Pros & Cons
✅ Pros
- Huge community trust with 5,015 endorsements and 238k downloads.
- Actively maintained — last updated November 2022 for Bannerlord e1.8.0.
- Deep customization: orientation, polygamy, and incest toggles.
⚠️ Cons
- Adoption feature was dropped, so you lose that functionality.
- Requires MCMv4 for in-game options, or manual config editing.
- Backup saves are recommended — mod can break saves if not handled.
For Bannerlord players who want to break the vanilla marriage restrictions and roleplay as a charismatic leader marrying anyone from nobles to commoners. Perfect for sandbox players who enjoy deep relationship mechanics. Skip if you prefer vanilla marriage or dislike mods that alter core gameplay.
💡 Beginner Tips
- Install MCMv4 first to access in-game options; otherwise, edit the config file manually.
- Load a character save before tweaking options — the mod options appear in the mod menu.
- Pair with Recruit Everyone to marry townsfolk and notables for the full experience.
📊 Mod Details
- Game
- Bannerlord Mods
- Author
- RoGreat
- Version
- 3.0.4
- Downloads
- 238,185
- Endorsements
- 5,015
- Category
- Gameplay
- Created
- 5/15/2020
- Updated
- 11/25/2022
🔧 How to Install Bannerlord Mods
Use Vortex or manual. Enable mods in launcher. Harmony required.
📖 Full step-by-step install guide for Bannerlord →
Visit the official mod page for specific installation instructions for this mod.
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