Marriage Offers For Player

Marriage offers for player

Marriage Offers For Player is a lightweight but essential improvement to Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord’s relationship and marriage system. In the base game, only your clan members can receive marriage proposals — the player character is strangely excluded from this feature.

Why? “TaleWorlds” Why? I don't understand.

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This mod fixes that limitation by enabling NPCs to send marriage offers directly to the player.

With this mod:

• []NPCs can initiate marriage proposals to the player

  []You can accept these offers and quickly get married

  []The world feels more reactive and immersive

  []The marriage system becomes more balanced and logical

  If you ever felt that the player should be treated the same as any other lord in Calradia, this mod finally makes it happen. Simple, lore-friendly, and fully compatible with most campaign systems.

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  Requirements

  • []Harmony

    []ButterLib

    []UIExtenderEx

    []Mod Configuration Menu

  Installation:

  • []Extract archive using 7zip

    []Place in Mount & Blade II Bannerlord\Modules folder

    []Enable in launcher and organize alphabetically

  or just install it easily with the Vortex mod manager.

  Compatibility: Can be added/removed anytime.

  Steam Workshop: https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3620695688

  GitHub: https://github.com/mitrax215/Bannerlord. MarriageOffersForPlayer

  My other mods

  • []No Fog Of War Removes the Fog of War system and making all settlements and characters visible in the game encyclopedia.

  • Keep Your Clan Members After Marriage This mod makes your clan members stay in your clan after they get married.

  🤖 AI-enhanced — based on mod data

  Marriage Offers For Player is a lightweight mod for Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord that enables NPCs to send marriage proposals directly to the player, fixing a base-game limitation. It requires Harmony, ButterLib, UIExtenderEx, and Mod Configuration Menu, and has 251 endorsements with 34,811 downloads.

  ✨ Key Features

  Allows NPCs to initiate marriage proposals to the player character

  Enables the player to accept offers and get married quickly

  Makes the world feel more reactive and immersive

  Balances the marriage system by treating the player like other lords

  Lore-friendly and compatible with most campaign systems

  📊 Pros & Cons

  ✅ Pros

  • Fixes a real gap in Bannerlord's marriage system—player finally gets proposals (251 endorsements)
  • Lightweight and easy to install—just extract and drop into the Modules folder
  • Active community support with 34,811 downloads shows it's widely used

  ⚠️ Cons

  • Requires four separate dependencies (Harmony, ButterLib, UIExtenderEx, MCM) which can be a hassle to set up
  • No clear documentation on compatibility with other mods that alter marriage or diplomacy systems
  • Last updated December 2025—may not be updated for future game patches

  🎯 Is This For You?
  For Bannerlord players who want their character to be treated like any other lord in Calradia, especially those who enjoy role-playing and immersive political interactions. If you're tired of being the only one who can propose marriage, this mod is for you. Skip if you prefer to keep the vanilla marriage system or don't want to install multiple dependencies.

  📦 Install:Medium· 5-10 minutes

  💡 Beginner Tips

  • Make sure you install all four required mods in the correct order—Harmony first, then ButterLib, UIExtenderEx, and MCM—to avoid crashes.
  • Use a mod manager like Vortex to handle dependencies automatically, but manual installation works fine if you follow the folder path exactly.
  • After installing, check the Mod Configuration Menu in-game to see if the mod's settings appear; if not, verify that all dependencies are loaded.