Family Control (Pregnancy)

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By Nachomastero · Gameplay

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About This Mod

Revolutionize family dynamics in Bannerlord! Control pregnancies, have bastards, choose cultures for your children, and navigate a world where women decide on abortions. Introducing new features like adoption, risk of pregnancy loss in

Based on the Pregnancy Control mod https://www.nexusmods.com/mountandblade2bannerlord/mods/713" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">here but with new features.

Currently working on BL v1. 2. 8

What this mod do:

Functions for Male Player:

- New pregnancy method

Players can decide when their wife gets pregnant.

- Bastard children

Players can have children with any Noblewoman, Notable, or Wanderer ("Would you like to have some time together").

- Abortion system

Players can request abortions, and the outcome depends on the lady's traits, they will not always agree.

- Adoption for bastards

Players can adopt their bastard children when they come of age.

Functions for Female Player:

- New pregnancy method

Female players can decide when to get pregnant with a child.

Players can also have babies with other people besides your husband, like any other noble, notable or wanderer.

- Abortion system

Players can talk to any tavern keeper and ask for the strongest drink (probably a feature that should never have existed.).

- Female with female pregnancy

Option to have children with other females.

Other Features:

- Child conception for clan members

Players can encourage family and clan members to conceive children with their wives.

- Culture selection for children

Players can choose the culture of their clan children when they come of age.

-Passive abortion mechanics

The women in Calradia can decide that the world will not be a good place for her unborn child, it is based on political or economic situations and their traits.

-Pregnancy loss risk in battles

Women engaged in battles can lose their pregnancies due to injuries (limited to player battles).

- Black Screen Effect and sounds

Immersive features for when characters spend time together consisting in a black screen effect and sounds, this is a feature by https://www.nexusmods.com/users/89206248" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">TheBadListener.

The Witcher 3 sounds for the black screen effect, extracted and provided by https://www.nexusmods.com/users/8924135" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">BestGeek, all thanks to him.

How it works:

For Male Player

  • The game will no longer make your wife pregnant automatically since that feature is disabled by installing this mod, but if for some reason you want it enabled, you can enable it back in the mod settings if you desire.
  • If you want to have a baby you must talk to your wife, and ask her to pass time together, you will see the black screen effect and some sounds after her reply. there is a probability (70%) that she can get pregnant, if she does, you will be notified after not more than tree days (1-3). also you will need to have at least 0 relation with her, on the contrary the option will not appear. The pregnancy's probability, The time for the pregnancy to be notified, and the relation needed can be adjusted in the mod settings.
  • If you want to have a baby with other lady who is not your wife (a bastard), you can talk to the lady and ask her to pass time together, the same method and conditions will be applied to her. The lady can be another noble, a wanderer or a notable (like merchants, gang leaders, rural notables etc.), also, if you wish to pass time together with a family member, you can enable the incest option in the config file.
  • After pass time together with a lady, few random days will need to pass (1-3) so you can ask the same lady to pass time together once more. This amount of time can also be adjusted in the mod settings. There is also an adjustable value in the settings to set the amount of times the player can "pass time together" with ladies in a single day, it is limited to 10 by default.
  • If a lady conceived your child, and for some reason you no longer want her to give birth, you can go and tell her that you do not want that child, if she understands your petition she will make an abortion the soon as possible (not more than one day), but (as expected) there is good chance for her to refuse, it is fully based on the lady's traits.
  • A lady can also decide that the world is too hard and cruel for his unborn child and it will be a chance for herself to decide not to have the child, it is based on multiple factors, like political complications (For example, if she is a noblewoman and still unmarried and then she gets pregnant, it could be deduced that social pressure and family distress may have led her to terminate her pregnancy). Other factors are the Wealth and the lady's traits.
  • A lady can lost her pregnancy if she participates in battles and gets injured, there is a set probability for this to happen. So far only the field battles with the player involved are included.
  • If a lady keep her pregnancy, she will give birth after less than 2 seasons (35 game days),  the child will stay in his mother's clan and will adopt her culture. The gender of the child, the twins chance, the stillborn chance, and the chance of the mother to die on childbirth are still controlled by the game and can not be adjusted.
  • The children from non-noble mothers will also adopt his mother's culture but they will be part of the neutral clan and they will become wanderers.
  • When any of the bastard children come of age, you can find them and talk to them and you will be able to adopt them into your clan, they will become part of your family, also if he is wanderer he will gain the title of noble.
  • When the children who belong to the player's clan finally come of age, you will be asked to chose his culture, you can chose from the player's culture or the mother's culture. If the mother's culture is the same to yours, you will not be asked (since it is pointless, the options would be the same).

For Female Player

  • The game will no longer make you automatically pregnant by your husband since that feature is disabled by installing this mod, if for some reason you want it enabled, you can enable it back in the config file if you desire.
  • If you want to have a baby you must talk to your husband, and ask him to pass time together, you will see the black screen effect and some sounds after his reply. There is a probability (70%) that you can get pregnant, if you do, you will be notified after not more than tree days (1-3). also you will need to have at least 0 relation with your husband, on the contrary the option will not appear. The pregnancy's probability, The time for the pregnancy to be notified, and the relation needed can be adjusted in the config file.
  • If you want to have a baby with other people who are not your husband, you can talk to the man and ask him to pass time together, the same method and conditions will be applied. The man can be another noble, a wanderer or a notable (like merchants, gang leaders, rural notables etc.), also, if you wish to pass

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Mod Details

Game
Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord
Author
Nachomastero
Version
1.1.3.1
Downloads
288,341
Endorsements
4,755
Category
Gameplay
Last Updated
6/4/2026

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