MHIYH Custom Follower Exclusion Patch
🟠 Updated over a year ago⚠️ Install Order · 5 steps
Install in this order, then this mod last — most mods fail to load without their framework and dependencies in place.
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🔍 Analysis
- 👍 0.2% endorsement rate
- 🏆 #59 of 279 Patches mods in this game by downloads
📋 About This Mod
My Home Is Your Home allows you to customize your followers in a few ways. However, one thing of note is that it should not be used on followers with custom built AI packaging. Despite this, the dialogue option is still omnipresent for them. So, I removed it.
This is done via editing one record from MHIYH to add a new condition on the dialogue checking against a FormList. The FormList is then edited via FormList Manipulator so there are no tedious patches required.
If you want to add support here for a custom follower that isn't listed, just add their EditorID to the FLM ini file in the mod, or just ask me to do so for you.
Currently supported followers:
You do not need any/all of these for the mod to work. It will work with any combination of these followers.
Quick note: I haven't kept up with the various Kaidan developments, so this specifically lists 00Kaidan. Depending on which version of Kaidan you use, this may or may not be the correct EditorID for the follower, so I'd recommend double checking, if you want to be sure.
This patch removes the MHIYH dialogue option from followers with custom AI, preventing accidental use on incompatible followers. It's a small, focused fix for Skyrim players who use both MHIYH and custom-AI followers, with 50 endorsements and recent updates.
✨ Key Features
📊 Pros & Cons
✅ Pros
- Solves a real annoyance for players using custom-AI followers (50 endorsements)
- Tiny patch that does exactly one job—no bloat
- Recently updated (April 2025), so it's likely compatible with current mod setups
⚠️ Cons
- Niche use case—only matters if you run both MHIYH and custom-AI followers
- May need to be loaded after MHIYH and your follower mods to work correctly
- No detailed instructions, so you'll need to figure out load order yourself
For Skyrim players who use My Home Is Your Home and have followers with custom AI, and are tired of accidentally sending them home. Skip if you don't use MHIYH or only use vanilla followers.
💡 Beginner Tips
- Place this patch after MHIYH and your custom follower mods in your load order to ensure it overrides correctly.
- Use a mod manager like Vortex or MO2 to install—it's a simple ESP, so just enable it.
- If you're using a custom follower that also has MHIYH support, test the dialogue after installing to confirm the option is gone.
📊 Mod Details
- Game
- Skyrim Mods
- Author
- Lively
- Version
- 1.0
- Downloads
- 24,303
- Endorsements
- 50
- Category
- Patches
- Created
- 4/14/2025
- Updated
- 4/14/2025
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