At Your Own Pace
⚪ Last updated 2024⚠️ Install Order · 5 steps
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🔍 Analysis
- 👍 0.1% endorsement rate
- 🏆 #2 of 91 Quests and Adventures mods in this game by downloads
📋 About This Mod
At Your Own Pace
Skyrim's quests tends to force you into them, especially the main quest. If you use the vanilla start there is no reasonable place to stop and go and do something else, despite the game being go anywhere do anything. Alternate Start helps, but you tend to run out of reasons to avoid Helgen. There is always a Dragon to fight, a quest to do, never time to steal every sweetroll in Skyrim. And no matter what character you are playing, you are always expected to be a hero, in a game with three evil questlines. So this mod should hopefully fix this, by giving the player breaks at various stages.
Main Quest
Firstly, after telling the Jarl about the Dragon, you are paid, and that's it. No epic quest, no quest marker, just play the game how you want. If you choose to offer help to Farengar, he will send you to Bleak Falls Barrow.
After returning to Farengar, he pays you and that is it. No immediate fight to the death between a brand new character and a Dragon. To spawn the Dragon attack on the Watchtower, ask him if he has seen any Dragons. After he tells you he would love to see a Dragon, a Dragon immediately turns up, and he isn't allowed to see it.
The main quest continues unchanged until you get to Ustengrav. The horn is still there, allowing you to return it, gain the third word of Fus Ro Da, and then ignore Delphine for as long as you like. Again, talking to Farengar progresses the main quest. Ask him to contact Delphine for you, and a letter will be sent shorty.
An Attunement Sphere has been given to Sulla, in Afltand. This is to allow players to explore Blackreach, without doing the main quest, or roleplaying a reason to explore every iceberg in the Sea of Ghosts.
I have created another mod, Defeat the Dragon Cult, to expand the later half of the main quest. This gives the Dragonborn a reason to avoid facing Alduin until all the Dragon Priests are dead. Use that as well of you feel the later half of the main quest is too rushed.
Finally, Season Unending is skipped entirely. Jarl Balgruuf will help you whether or not the Civil War is ongoing.
All of the above options can be disabled using the MCM menu.
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[]A Skyrim Unbound version is available, that just has the second half of the changes. Talk to Arngeir to start a Blade in the Dark. He will tell you to then talk to Farengar.[/]
[]Compatible with Realm of Lorkhan.[/]
[]Compatible with Alternate Start.[/]
[]Compatible with Alternate Perspective.[/]
[]Compatible with all Paarthurnax mods.[/]
College of Winterhold
You are forced to go to the College for the main quest, and therefore join it. This
At Your Own Pace is a quest overhaul mod for Skyrim that modifies all vanilla questlines and DLCs to introduce breaks between stages, enhancing roleplaying and slowing the game's pace. With nearly 10,000 endorsements and 9 million downloads, it's a popular choice for players seeking a more measured playthrough.
✨ Key Features
📊 Pros & Cons
✅ Pros
- Huge community trust: 9,781 endorsements and 9M downloads
- Transforms the entire game, not just one questline
- Perfect for roleplayers who want breathing room between quests
⚠️ Cons
- Last updated January 2024 – may not be compatible with the latest Skyrim patches
- Overhauling all questlines can conflict with other quest mods
For Skyrim players who feel rushed by the main quest and want to savor the world. Ideal for roleplayers who enjoy taking breaks between story beats. Skip if you prefer fast-paced, action-driven questing.
💡 Beginner Tips
- Use a mod manager like Vortex or Mod Organizer 2 to install and manage load order.
- Check for compatibility patches if you use other quest overhaul mods.
- Start a new playthrough to experience the pacing changes fully.
📊 Mod Details
- Game
- Skyrim Mods
- Author
- Gothos25
- Version
- 2.1.0
- Downloads
- 9,009,931
- Endorsements
- 9,781
- Category
- Quests and Adventures
- Created
- 7/22/2021
- Updated
- 1/19/2024
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